What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are in fact out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the desired sequence of massaging that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a very unexpected course. Everything fits into a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the first action in a great advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, obviously, but given that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly need to be ensured. Loving attunement constantly precedes.
Set clear borders ahead of time
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also entirely ok (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) limits. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important role again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a split 2nd you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various strategies to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Typically leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is normally good, often tasty. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and strategies in typical. There is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (aimed at enjoyment satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at healing).
Not Therapy
Well because you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but also psychologically).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, do not press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Do not only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", stay away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Absolutely nothing has actually to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You might not be awaiting a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect boundaries, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are primarily really open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. However, know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the useful reference recipient) are really essential! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply combination minutes (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or perhaps disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing result. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries come to the surface area. There may be an emotional release, including physical reactions such as shaking, sobbing, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover exactly what it is like to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a splendidly liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness (of both).